<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Why We Waver</title><description>For the moment you wonder if it was right</description><link>https://whywewaver.com/</link><language>en</language><item><title>Is counting pros and cons enough to make a decision?</title><link>https://whywewaver.com/en/weigh-your-reasons/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://whywewaver.com/en/weigh-your-reasons/</guid><description>Counting pros and cons may not settle a choice when reasons carry different weights. You can collect reasons over several days and cancel out items of equal weight. See how Benjamin Franklin explained this in 1772.</description><pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Can you keep working when motivation fades?</title><link>https://whywewaver.com/en/small-daily-progress/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://whywewaver.com/en/small-daily-progress/</guid><description>We analyze why working feels hard when motivation drops through research. We offer a framework that breaks tasks into small wins. An 1883 autobiography by Anthony Trollope shows how one writer recorded 250 words every 15 minutes.</description><pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Can you reach out after a long silence?</title><link>https://whywewaver.com/en/restarting-a-conversation/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://whywewaver.com/en/restarting-a-conversation/</guid><description>We examine why reaching out after silence feels hard through relationship research. We share a simple framework to lower pressure when saying hello. An 1812 exchange between John Adams and Thomas Jefferson shows how two people reconnected.</description><pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>When you&apos;re not sure, why do you waver?</title><link>https://whywewaver.com/en/why-we-waver/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://whywewaver.com/en/why-we-waver/</guid><description>We explore why choices create hesitation through empirical research. We introduce a simple framework that compares options with clear criteria. A documented 1838 note by Charles Darwin shows how one person weighed a difficult decision.</description><pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>